The Story of Real LOVE
By Sinni Singh
When you look in the history of love, you read stories of powerful kings and queens and you see the ones who made history. People still learn from them, and they are the kings and queens who experience true love because that’s where real power resides. When you fall in love things that were dull suddenly you experience them as being much brighter. You feel fully alive and motivated to achieve amazing things. What is the mystery? Everyone around you can feel the difference in you and then something changes. You go in doubt about your feelings. You go into a deeper disturbance within you and then conflict arrives. You try to figure out what changed. You lose the desire to do things that used to excite you. Life feels burdensome. Either you get yourself busy with work, so you don’t have to think about it, or you get into another relationship with the next person you meet, and then same experience happens again. What went wrong is the question?
Love at first sight. When you are attracted to someone physical appearance is the first thing you see, and you feel the chemistry. Then the next step is to get to know the person. Do you remember in school chemistry was just one subject not the whole course? Chemistry has its importance but there are other aspects of a lasting relationship. What’s your goal for the relationship and does it match the goals of the other person? Do you have the same vision for life? Let’s say you went to buy a Ferrari and you are attracted to the beauty of it then you went on a test drive. You are impressed with the performance, but you don’t just stop there and buy the car. You have to figure out the payments, insurance, durability, etc. Then you see if it aligns with what you want, and you decide to buy it. So, it will bring you lasting joy. Let’s say if you got emotionally invested just by the looks of it and didn’t take the time to investigate anything else, the experience will be very different. Journey of life becomes lot more pleasurable if you have a partner who is going in the same direction. The only way you will know it if you have invested time in getting to know each other. If you are dreaming about owning a private jet and your partner just want a reliable car, then you’re not in alignment and the both of you coming together will cause friction.
When you are in a relationship where you both have same dreams and are working towards the same goal, it naturally becomes a lasting relationship. Men and women have different strengths that come to them naturally. Being with a partner who is balanced makes life fun. Vision boards are very helpful in keeping a clear vision and seeing your partner’s vision. For instance, if you have a house by the water on your vision board and a boat but your partner has a house in the desert on their vision board, or if you are a person who likes to plan and save for a flourishing future and your partner is a big spender and doesn’t like to save that opens up a conflict. If you have chosen a partner who has the same goals, then none of these obstacles will arise. When neither of you have to give up on your dreams and neither one is trying to change the other, it makes life easier and much more fulfilling. When you have support at home you perform better at work. When you bring harmony in your relationship you are more productive because your energy is flowing in your success, not in your conflict.
Love making generates the most powerful energy that we call orgasms. It has much more significance other than the simple fact that it feels good. You become one with another person. It is the most intimate exchange. The energy exchange that happens during an orgasm stays in you for three days. You can’t be independent in your own energy for next three days. Your feelings, your thought processes are intermingled for that period. It’s not the right time to analyze the relationship if you want to think independently. Most of the decisions to move forward in relationships are taken in the energy of the influence of the other person. If one person wants to be in the relationship their energy can influence the decision to move forward in it. The best way to be sure that it’s the right relationship and it’s coming fully from you is when you know what to do.
A happy relationship is complementary to one another. When you are in a relationship that is of complement and not of competition or conflict, then you thrive. A relationship is supposed to bring the best in you and that can only happen if you have a supportive partner whose dreams are same as your dreams. It helps dreams manifest when you believe in them, talk about them and get excited. The universe thrives on the energy of excitement and love and you get universal support that manifest and make your dreams come true. What the universe wants for you is to be in love.
Sinni Singh is a queen in her own right. Real Vegas will be discussing topics about real love between men and women in each upcoming issue. We are currently looking for a counter part of a man who is living his best life as a modern-day king in both his personal and professional life that is interested in writing from the king’s perspective on topics related to love. We are also accepting questions from readers that want to have Sinni (as a modern-day queen) and the king to answer. Please submit your interest and request to: email@example.com with any requests.
We look forward to bringing you more articles by Ms. Sinni Singh in upcoming issues.